>>6153
Because it helps to understand her actions from a bigger picture. I was trying to determine if she has BPD, is autistic, low IQ, or sociopathic. If you understood why she did some of these things it will either make you want to forgive her or see she's unempathetic and stupid and not worth it so maybe you should just ask her and see if she seems legitimately sorry or not. This of course could be bad news if she's a sociopath and you get drawn in more instead but statistically that isn't the most likely reason. She sounds autistic and a bit stupid in certain matters. Youd have to fade her out of her life by giving her the "gray rock" technique. You need to make yourself as boring and unresponsive to her bullshit as a gray rock, it's a technique for dealing with psychopaths and sometimes people with BPD by making yourself uninteresting to them and not a source of enjoyment.